fenderguy Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 You are TOOOO passive is the deal. And you're extremely fussy and particular as to what you expect in a girl. Even if a girl did like you, she would probably be afraid to tell you, for fear that you'd reject her. So the next time a girl is flirting with you and you have a suspicion that she likes you, perhaps you should make some sort of move.... Your perseverance is commendable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Bonnie~ Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Your perseverance is commendable. I'm an Aries. We're known for forcing our ideas onto other people. Eventually he'll cave..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ledbaby Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 I'm an Aries. We're known for forcing our ideas onto other people. Eventually he'll cave..... We've got just the bird for this bloke... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 You are TOOOO passive is the deal. And you're extremely fussy and particular as to what you expect in a girl. Even if a girl did like you, she would probably be afraid to tell you, for fear that you'd reject her. So the next time a girl is flirting with you and you have a suspicion that she likes you, perhaps you should make some sort of move.... What's too passive? I am not an intimidating person. There would be no reason for them to be afraid to tell me they were interested in me. Not if they are pretty anyways. It's hard to tell if a girl likes you by flirting though. It's not a sure sign. She could just be being friendly. That's what i was talking about. I can't read their minds and i don't want to presume something that isn't there and get embarrassed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Spats doesn't want a girl... Huh??? What do you mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Bonnie~ Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 What's too passive? I am not an intimidating person. There would be no reason for them to be afraid to tell me they were interested in me. Not if they are pretty anyways. It's hard to tell if a girl likes you by flirting though. It's not a sure sign. She could just be being friendly. That's what i was talking about. I can't read their minds and i don't want to presume something that isn't there and get embarrassed. Oh really....what about your incredibly high standards, hmmm? Unless she's a friggin supermodel, a girl might worry that she's "a little too blah" for your approval. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ledbaby Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Oh really....what about your incredibly high standards, hmmm? Unless she's a friggin supermodel, a girl might worry that she's "a little too blah" for your approval. Dont sort with the likes of Spats Bonnie. He doesn't want a girl. Nip it. In the BUD. Hiya Bonnie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ledbaby Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Huh??? What do you mean? What I mean is, you trounce everyones suggestions, and put any girl down you can come upon. If you don't want advice on HOW to pick up a nice girl, simply do not ask. HOWEVER. If you have been given true tried and blue options which have been proven to work. Clean out your lil ears and listen. Buy the girl that was flirting with you a flower or a bottle of wine and ask her for a chat. Don't be a fool, if nothing else she may wanna beat out her friends as competition. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Oh really....what about your incredibly high standards, hmmm? Unless she's a friggin supermodel, a girl might worry that she's "a little too blah" for your approval. She does not have to look like a supermodel. Hell supermodels don't always look that great. The girls that we meet though don't know that i like really pretty girls so i don't know why they would have worry about that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Del Zeppnile Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 She does not have to look like a supermodel. Hell supermodels don't always look that great. The girls that we meet though don't know that i like really pretty girls so i don't know why they would have worry about that. Supermodels look great on your arm at a high school reunion, but for the real nuts and bolts type of relationship I like a woman who is little bit "imperfect." They are so much more appreciative of the attention. And if she can cook... well, that's even better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 What I mean is, you trounce everyones suggestions, and put any girl down you can come upon. If you don't want advice on HOW to pick up a nice girl, simply do not ask. HOWEVER. If you have been given true tried and blue options which have been proven to work. Clean out your lil ears and listen. Buy the girl that was flirting with you a flower or a bottle of wine and ask her for a chat. Don't be a fool, if nothing else she may wanna beat out her friends as competition. I don't really mean to do that it's just that the suggestions coming are the usual ones where i have to be the aggresser. The responsibility seems to be falling in to my lap all the time even when i am unsure if the girl is interested. No one say's she should be honest with me, they flip it and say i should make the move whether i know she is interested or not. I was just asking how do you know if she is interested without embarrassing myself. That's why i want them to just be honest and just say whether they are or not. I am surprised everyone isn't agreeing with me on the honesty route. I didn't realize i was putting down any girl i come upon. Do i really do that? I don't conciously do that. I would like to chat with that girl again but i don't know if she really was interested in me or just teasing. because it went nowhere and she took off with her girlfriends. And i don't want to be buying her anything unless i know for sure that it's gonna go anywhere. I don't want to get played by her. But i really do want a girlfriend to have fun with. I am not just saying that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Supermodels look great on your arm at a high school reunion, but for the real nuts and bolts type of relationship I like a woman who is little bit "imperfect." They are so much more appreciative of the attention. And if she can cook... well, that's even better. Nuts and bolts relationship? It depends on what you mean by imperfect. Average looking? I am not expecting perfection. But i like them to be pretty and have a nice body,etc. That sort of thing. Nothing over the top. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uncle Bill Posted June 22, 2008 Share Posted June 22, 2008 Spats, describe how you would have liked this girl to have acted. I'm not sure what it is you are looking for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted June 22, 2008 Share Posted June 22, 2008 Spats, describe how you would have liked this girl to have acted. I'm not sure what it is you are looking for. Hi Bill, I have just had too many mixed signals in the past with flirting that it has just made me wary of it and it has made me second guess the situation. The whole time she was doing it i couldn't tell if she was interested or just teasing. With flirting you just can't tell. On the surface it looked like she was but that's no guarantee of anything. And then it went nowhere and she left with her girlfriends which made me think she was just playing with me. I guess i just wanted her to be more upfront if she truly was interested. Just suggest we exchange numbers or something. That's what i would have liked her to do. I can't read minds. It's frustrating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted June 22, 2008 Share Posted June 22, 2008 Not having internet until Tuesday. Thank God I can leech off a wireless network somewhere near our house or else I'd go crazy. Our new house is AMAZING!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ledbaby Posted June 22, 2008 Share Posted June 22, 2008 Hi Bill, I have just had too many mixed signals in the past with flirting that it has just made me wary of it and it has made me second guess the situation. The whole time she was doing it i couldn't tell if she was interested or just teasing. With flirting you just can't tell. On the surface it looked like she was but that's no guarantee of anything. And then it went nowhere and she left with her girlfriends which made me think she was just playing with me. I guess i just wanted her to be more upfront if she truly was interested. Just suggest we exchange numbers or something. That's what i would have liked her to do. I can't read minds. It's frustrating. Just slip her a big, wet, fat, sloppy kiss. Make sure she enjoys it. If she smiles it's a good thing, if she slaps you it's very good. Means she's kinky too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dancin'Days Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 My pet peeve is girls wearing hip huggers, a belly shirt, a string halfway up their back and a tramp stamp. I'm not a prude but I think some things should be left to the immagination. I am glad that I don't have a daughter in these times of terrible trends! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~tangerine~ Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 Being disrespected. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fenderguy Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 Hi Bill, I have just had too many mixed signals in the past with flirting that it has just made me wary of it and it has made me second guess the situation. The whole time she was doing it i couldn't tell if she was interested or just teasing. With flirting you just can't tell. On the surface it looked like she was but that's no guarantee of anything. And then it went nowhere and she left with her girlfriends which made me think she was just playing with me. I guess i just wanted her to be more upfront if she truly was interested. Just suggest we exchange numbers or something. That's what i would have liked her to do. I can't read minds. It's frustrating. Apart from death and taxes no one ever has a guarantee about anything. Unless you are willing to pay for an escort you are going to have to stick your neck out a little bit. That's life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ledbaby Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Fascists thinking they can tell others what to do when we DO NOT work for them :rant: Aren't there knitting lessons or gardening in other sections of the world? AND. People trying to tell others what to do with THEIR PC. I bought it, I will do as I wish with it. :rant: Bought the other ones too, cash, not my mates credit cards Rant over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marolyn Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 "armed forces network" public service announcements!!!! (used in place of commercials on military satellite) i.e. ... one telling women they can reduce the number of rapes if they lock their doors(set to some 70's sounding porn music) is a classic let's blame the victim...or the one asking "how do you want your soldier remembered?" shows a picture of a drunk driving accident scene followed by a picture of a war memorial???? wtf...how about neither of those!!!!!! i'm tired of being told how to dress, how to talk, how to cross the street anytime i want to watch a tv show...don't even get me started on all of the religious ones, and if i ever see "squeakers" the mouse again i'm gonna throw a brick through my television... one would think our troops and their families are a bunch of fucking morons who need to be told how to get out of bed in the morning... all i can say is...i really didn't love american television commercials until i was deprived of them!!! ok...rant over...i feel better now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dancin'Days Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 "armed forces network" public service announcements!!!! (used in place of commercials on military satellite) i.e. ... one telling women they can reduce the number of rapes if they lock their doors(set to some 70's sounding porn music) is a classic let's blame the victim...or the one asking "how do you want your soldier remembered?" shows a picture of a drunk driving accident scene followed by a picture of a war memorial???? wtf...how about neither of those!!!!!! i'm tired of being told how to dress, how to talk, how to cross the street anytime i want to watch a tv show...don't even get me started on all of the religious ones, and if i ever see "squeakers" the mouse again i'm gonna throw a brick through my television... one would think our troops and their families are a bunch of fucking morons who need to be told how to get out of bed in the morning... all i can say is...i really didn't love american television commercials until i was deprived of them!!! ok...rant over...i feel better now... I know! I only get the annalog version of AFN so I tape anything I want to watch and fast forward through the propaganda bullshit they call commercials! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patrycja Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 People who rip out pages from library books . I'm leafing through a Chaplin PICTORIAL, with rare behind the scenes photos throughout. Except for the ones that are missing :'( . Honestly, some people. Goddamnit . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 I think part of the problem Spats, is that you don't come off as being very passionate or intense. There's no fire. Believe it or not, it does make a difference in the type of impression you make on someone, whether you spark their interest or not. If you want to get a girl you're flirting with to be interested, there's a couple things you should do. 1) Make eye contact. Look at her when you're talking to her, don't be scoping out the room. If you don't make eye contact, she won't think you're interested. 2) Find common ground. When you're talking, listen to what she's saying, and zero in on a topic that you both have in common. For example, say you both like Neil Diamond. Talk to her about that. Ask her questions about it, like "So how long have you been a fan of his?" or "What do you think of the [album name] album?" 3) Don't be afraid to make physical contact. No, I don't mean play grab-ass. But don't be afraid to brush her hair out of her face, or touch her arm when you are talking to her. I agree with you, Bonnie Stemming from this, it's downright annoying when you're talking to a guy who you get so deep into a conversation with and they are just scanning their heads around the room and the only thing they mutter out of their mouth is "uh huh" or "mmmm hmmm". Maybe using two or three real words wouldn't be so annoying. And now that I think I about it, that is annoying with just about anybody, not just the guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 People who rip out pages from library books . I'm leafing through a Chaplin PICTORIAL, with rare behind the scenes photos throughout. Except for the ones that are missing :'( . Honestly, some people. Goddamnit . Sorry about that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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