Mona Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 We all have finds we find attractive, physically. I'm just curious about what other people think and what they find attractive in a physical sense that isn't strictly related to the body or sex. Who do you think has/had the most beautiful eyes/smile/whatever? Here are some of my things: I think that, for the men, John Lennon had one of the nicest smiles. There is just something completely lovely and enduring about it. For the women, I really like Billie Piper's smile. I don't really know why, I just think it's a really nice smile. It might sound wierd if there is anyone here who doesn't like her (there are probably a few, but I think she's gorgous) but I would kill to have a smile as nice as hers. For eyes, Hugh Laurie's eyes are extremely nice. They have just such a nice shade and color. Agree? Disagree? What about the rest of you? What do you find attractive? What do you all think about this sort of thing? I just want to say that this isn't supposed to be about sex (although it is inevitable that physical beauty and lust cross at some point or another) and it isn't in any way meant to be shallow. People have a lot of lovely attributes inside as well. Sometimes, though, we can see those attributes in their eyes or in their smiles. Besides, I don't focus on the physical attractiveness a lot, I am more mental. I think it is important to observe both to truely appreciate and understand beauty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inga May Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Great Thread, Mona!! :cheer: I absolutely agree with you, that John had a charming smile. Roger. I love his teeth.. This smile is adorable... And Jimmy of course.. :wub: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FuzzyMerkin Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Most beautiful smile I've ever seen was that of a friend of mine. We were on holidays and I was filming the surroundings and she'd been cleaning her glasses (she's extremely short sighted), put them on, looked up, saw me fiiming her - and there it was - the most spontaneous beautiful smile ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mona Posted February 20, 2008 Author Share Posted February 20, 2008 Great Thread, Mona!! :cheer: I absolutely agree with you, that John had a charming smile. He really did. There was this part in the "We Can Work it Out" video (I think it was that one, anyway,) where he's sitting at the piano and he keeps smiling at the camera. My sister kept expecting there to be a little light shining off his teeth. Most beautiful smile I've ever seen was that of a friend of mine. We were on holidays and I was filming the surroundings and she'd been cleaning her glasses (she's extremely short sighted), put them on, looked up, saw me fiiming her - and there it was - the most spontaneous beautiful smile ever. That's sweet. Genuine smiles are always good, especially when they're spontanious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 I think if I contribute, I will sound off as obsessive But must I say, I agree with the aforementioned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redrum Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 I really like long hair. When my hair was really long my sister kept telling me she wished hers looked so nice. We both have red hair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suz Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 I think it's probably in the eyes. It seems to me that people either have a very open, free look in their eyes...or a kind of hard, closed off look. Of course there are varying degrees in between, and things like circumstance and mood to consider. Some men can totally draw you in with one look, I think. Well, they can to me but I'm probably easily amused. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chicken Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 I've never really given much thought to who I think has the most beautiful particular features or anything like that. What I generally find attractive is tall, slim, stylish men who are very good looking but with certain imperfections. It's the imperfections that do it for me, I think. I'm not into guys who are all perfect and clean-cut. I find that incredibly boring. There are millions of good looking men in the world but it's the way they present themselves that can make them attractive to me a lot of the time, rather than the way their actual face looks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FuzzyMerkin Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 It's the imperfections that do it for me, I think. Good point. What's more, most people can be stunningly beautiful in certain moments or situations - usually when they're not aware of themselves - which is something most artificial photoshopped "perfect beauties" never manage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zero Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 the last time something of beauty struck me, it was martin luther king jr's eyes. example: as far as generalities go, i like different things about different individuals . it could be hands could be hair, could be eyes . sometimes it's nice being taken off guard, not looking for something pacific but having whatever it is about someone take you by surprise. i also like the idea of not having an immediate attraction to someone (or seeing something of beauty right off hand). gradually seeing a beauty in them that transfers over to their physical appearance, maybe it would stem more so from their personality or character. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chicken Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 i also like the idea of not having an immediate attraction to someone (or seeing something of beauty right off hand). gradually seeing a beauty in them that transfers over to their physical appearance, maybe it would stem more so from their personality or character. I suppose you could argue that that's more endearing. That happened with me and my boyfriend. I never really looked at him that way for ages, but then suddenly my feelings and the way I saw him gradually changed. Even when we got together I wasn't massively sexually attracted to him. I was massively attracted to his personality, but there wasn't like...an enormous lust in regards to the way he looked. Then after we got together, every day he became more and more beautiful to me in that way too. My perception of his face and his features and everything really changed. Like, I never noticed how beautiful his eyes and lips were until we'd got together. Funny how things can work the other way 'round and stuff. Oh, this post was rather sickening of me, wasn't it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock Action Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 The last time I posted a pic of who I thought was beautiful, I got accused of posting a skeleton. Again, all these "shiny happy people" in modeling don't impress me. Natural beauty is about an individual, unique look. Not a cookie-cutter magazine model. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dzldoc Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 The last time I posted a pic of who I thought was beautiful, I got accused of posting a skeleton. Again, all these "shiny happy people" in modeling don't impress me. Natural beauty is about an individual, unique look. Not a cookie-cutter magazine model. Here ya go Rock Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 I like full lips. Long hair. A cute nose. I used to care about hair color. But i am not picky about that anymore. I like the woman to be close to my height. In good shape. I love it when women wear their hair in a ponytail. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Bonnie~ Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 When it comes to guys: I like long, dark, wavy hair. I like small but full lips and crooked bottom teeth(I don't know why). I like it when a guy's kinda stocky, and close to my height, which is 5' 5". I LOOVE tattoos, and feel the need to trace the lines with my finger. I like some chest hair(not extreme amounts, though) and happy trails. I like cool scars that have a story behind them. I like deep voices. I like guys that can make me laugh. I like guys that are a little bit possesive, I'd rather he be jealous than to think that I don't matter. That is what I think is beautiful in a man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dzldoc Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 For Roger fans Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gainsbarre Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 I suppose you could argue that that's more endearing. That happened with me and my boyfriend. I never really looked at him that way for ages, but then suddenly my feelings and the way I saw him gradually changed. Even when we got together I wasn't massively sexually attracted to him. I was massively attracted to his personality, but there wasn't like...an enormous lust in regards to the way he looked. Then after we got together, every day he became more and more beautiful to me in that way too. My perception of his face and his features and everything really changed. Like, I never noticed how beautiful his eyes and lips were until we'd got together. Funny how things can work the other way 'round and stuff. You know you're absolutely right. A couple of my ex partners, if you had passed them in the street, you wouldn't look twice at them. But when I got to know their personalities, and it's their personalities you fall in love with, it completely changes how you view them physically and sexually to the point that they become the most beautiful people in the world to you, even though you're still aware that they're not classically 'beautiful'. And that changes everything because suddenly classical beauty means nothing, or just feels empty, whereas when you see their face, it looks so beautiful, in a non-beautiful way! lol In the past, I've dated two people who were considered by everyone else to be very good-looking and sexy. They were hot property on the dating scene. And I've also dated people who were considered to be ugly or plain looking. And I realised that it has nothing to do with how attractive-looking a person is. It is all about their personality, because being in a relationship with someone just because they're attractive is so empty or meaningless. When you're kissing someone your eyes are closed, you can't see how good looking they are so it could be anybody Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inga May Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 For Roger fans Thank you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Plant Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 A man that loves animals. So attractive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alessandra Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 Most beautiful smile I've ever seen was that of a friend of mine. We were on holidays and I was filming the surroundings and she'd been cleaning her glasses (she's extremely short sighted), put them on, looked up, saw me fiiming her - and there it was - the most spontaneous beautiful smile ever. aawww^^^ i think she's lovely for me, the most beautiful guy would have a great smile and an expressive eyes and I'm attracted on a talented and smart guy who can keep pace on me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FuzzyMerkin Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 A couple of my ex partners, if you had passed them in the street, you wouldn't look twice at them. But when I got to know their personalities, and it's their personalities you fall in love with, it completely changes how you view them physically and sexually to the point that they become the most beautiful people in the world to you, even though you're still aware that they're not classically 'beautiful'. And that changes everything because suddenly classical beauty means nothing, or just feels empty, whereas when you see their face, it looks so beautiful, in a non-beautiful way! lol Sounds funny, but it's absolutely true. Funny thing is when I was younger a friend of mine would harp on about her boyfriend being so beautiful and I kept thinking by myself "girl, whom you're trying to fool"....until it happened to me. Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder. I remember that when I first started hanging out with the bf (in a "matey" way) I thought "he's funny, he looks nice - but thank god he's not my type" (I felt that I wasn't ready for a new relationship at the time). Well, what can I say - my "type" has changed considerably since then. Just never say never. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sunray782 Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 He really did. There was this part in the "We Can Work it Out" video (I think it was that one, anyway,) where he's sitting at the piano and he keeps smiling at the camera. My sister kept expecting there to be a little light shining off his teeth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mona Posted February 22, 2008 Author Share Posted February 22, 2008 Aww, yay! It is definatly interesting to read everyone's responses, and it does sort of show how people's tastes differ. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MHD Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 I like a man who can stimulate my mind. And one who is on the same humour wave length as myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dzldoc Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 The last time I posted a pic of who I thought was beautiful, I got accused of posting a skeleton. Again, all these "shiny happy people" in modeling don't impress me. Natural beauty is about an individual, unique look. Not a cookie-cutter magazine model. Here ya go Rock A man that loves animals. So attractive. where did the pic go? let's try that again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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