Evermore Posted April 23, 2008 Share Posted April 23, 2008 The only people, men and women, who play those mind games are people who either don't know what they want, or are afraid to say what they really want in their relationships. That, I am convinced, describes a good ninety percent if not more of the worlds population. And yes, I would probably include myself in that group from time to time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redrum Posted April 23, 2008 Share Posted April 23, 2008 My Puerto Rican friend used to always tell me: I get you a bewtiful woman, only $10! Women that stab you in the back with a switchblade knife!----Foreigner The women I've known I wouldn't let tie my shoe, They wouldn't give you the time of day----Rod Stewart This is a mans world, But it wouldn't be nothing Without a woman or a girl------James Brown Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted April 23, 2008 Share Posted April 23, 2008 Bravo! You are so right. "Soul of woman was created below" says more about the man singing/saying it than about any female. MistyMtn, R.E.S.P.E.C.T. will get you pretty far. And remember "if mamma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!" I have found showing respect doesn't get you far at all. Go out into the dating world and you will see. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 I love women hahaha For me the world will be so boring with out women and its okay if they are difficult I know I am as well and it make the chase more exciting I don't love all women. Just my taste in women. You find the chase exciting? I found the chase morale crushing. Just made ya want to stay away from women all together. That was a terrible time. I don't see how any man could enjoy that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manderlyh Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Meh. I always want to ask "what the hell's wrong with men?" But I try not to because I know that all men don't have the problems that irritate me now and then--things that the men in my life do to bother me aren't things that everyone does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonham Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 I don't love all women. Just my taste in women. You find the chase exciting? I found the chase morale crushing. Just made ya want to stay away from women all together. That was a terrible time. I don't see how any man could enjoy that. The idea is to intrigue them enough, but not let on you're chasing them. They will come to you. But you'll be hard-pressed to find a woman who doesn't want to be chased. And it's usually the tougher women that expect you to impress them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 The idea is to intrigue them enough, but not let on you're chasing them. They will come to you. But you'll be hard-pressed to find a woman who doesn't want to be chased. And it's usually the tougher women that expect you to impress them. I realize most of them want to be chased. The cool girls don't. But i don't give in to that game. I don't play that. I have been playing hard to get since college. I have turned it around where they come to me. Got almost all my girlfriends like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Well everybody gets mind-f*cked and some idiots become women haters cause of it. Oh well, that's their own ignorance, not the fault of the whole female population But I don't think it's fair when some women hate all men either Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonham Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Well everybody gets mind-f*cked and some idiots become women haters cause of it. Oh well, that's their own ignorance, not the fault of the whole female population But I don't think it's fair when some women hate all men either People in love can act like fools. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 People in love can act like fools. But when some people fall out of love, they still feel the misogyny or misandry associated with their past experiences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternal light Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Well i think this thread is going to get killed before he gets a chance to jump on. but ill say over 12:17 and my guess would be 2:31 Today, 04:57 PM pacific time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 (edited) People in love can act like fools. Amen. Particularly men. Guys can get really lame when they are in love. Women don't change nearly as much. Edited April 24, 2008 by spats Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Bonnie~ Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 I've dated some serious jerks--been lied to, cheated on, stolen from, threatened, etc.--but I don't think I would come to a forum and start a topic about it. Men can be just as messed up as women can, Trust Me! But that's life. And just because I've had some crappy experiences with a FEW men, doesn't mean that I think ALL men are bad. Just as you shouldn't generalize all women as being bad because of one bad one... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fenderguy Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 But when some people fall out of love, they still feel the misogyny or misandry associated with their past experiences. That can be a major problem for guys if the girl falls out of love first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3hrsoflunacy Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 what the fuck is wrong with females ? seriously you play these fucking mind games with us and you expect us to know what the fuck is going on. why do females have to be so god damn complicating. it just pisses me off. im so sick of this shit. AAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH "soul of a women was created below" I forgot something in my smart ass reply last night. You could always try swinging the other way. You may have better luck than with the complicated females. Good luck. When you find the answer, there are about 3 billion people who will want to know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 That can be a major problem for guys if the girl falls out of love first. Yeah, it's not justified for either the man or the woman Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lzfan715 Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 I'd like to clear something up, not every woman or girl is complicated. Some just think too much of themselves. Find someone simple, those girls do in fact exsist. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fenderguy Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 I forgot something in my smart ass reply last night. You could always try swinging the other way. You may have better luck than with the complicated females. Good luck. When you find the answer, there are about 3 billion people who will want to know. N.F.W. The answer is to be a celibate priest or a monk. That will solve everything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MistyMountain67 Posted April 24, 2008 Author Share Posted April 24, 2008 the point is i got played by some bitch the night before last. i got drunk with my buddies last night. found my way back home and on to ledzeppelin.com. and here we are discussing a topic that i wrote while i was heavely under the influence. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*I*LOVE*JIMMY!! Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 the point is i got played by some bitch the night before last. i got drunk with my buddies last night. found my way back home and on to ledzeppelin.com. and here we are discussing a topic that i wrote while i was heavely under the influence. Just always remember if it's regarding a female and your drunk, forget it at least until your sober. I see your 20, that has nothing to do with your maturity however your insight to women needs to mature and even at 50 most men are still inmature about women and why we do the things we do. All I know is when God made us, she knew what she was doing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hotplant Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 You don't need understand them, just love'em... P.S. However, stay far when they are in PMT... Gio, you said it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*I*LOVE*JIMMY!! Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 No matter how you look at it, it's a 50/50 deal. We're nither right nor wrong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dzldoc Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 No matter how you look at it, it's a 50/50 deal. We're nither right nor wrong Myself personally I always give 100% and have found I would get 110% in return. If I get burned oh well such is life, I just won't keep score. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evermore Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 the point is i got played by some bitch the night before last. i got drunk with my buddies last night. found my way back home and on to ledzeppelin.com. and here we are discussing a topic that i wrote while i was heavely under the influence. So you got drunk and then you got played? When you get drunk and you get played by a man you get your face bruised. When you get drunk and you get played by a woman you get your ego bruised. Personally I'd rather take the punch. Details please?... This sounds like a good story. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the queen without a king Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Amen. Particularly men. Guys can get really lame when they are in love. Women don't change nearly as much. I disagree. Being a woman myself I'd say women get lame too when they are trying to snag a guy. Not all women of course but the really desperate ones that will sacrifice their true identity so they don't end up "alone" I've seen it so many times. They pretend to like sports, or the same music as the guy and when they become a couple they get all psycho. And even worse are the guys who put up with such behaviour because at least they're "getting some." Bottom Line: It's 50/50 right down the middle. Men play games and women play games. You can read as many books about 'Figuring Men/Women out..' or watch all the Oprah specials you'd like, and that won't change a thing. You have to figure it out from your own experiences in life. Relationships are hard work. Without compromise and understanding you can kiss it goodbye. And both men and women need to keep the lines of communication open. We have the luxury of language yet we seldom make good use of it choosing instead to play games. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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