Flirting is very elusive. If a girl you are interested in is flirting with you, ask her if she'd like to go out sometime. Be direct. You will get your answer right then and there. It's not that complex. Everyone gets and gives mixed signals, so you just have to get to the truth. Many people DO like to flirt for fun. It's part of some people's personality, so you can't fault someone for being like that. My youngest sister has always been that way. To watch her talk to a guy (even some she has known for years) you might think, wow she really wants him, lol. But if you know her, you know it's natural for her to talk that way. It's not done to harm anyone or lead anyone on. Bottom line (again) be direct.

I'm happy i was able to find more delicious fruit at the market. I've stocked up for at least the next few days (it's the simple things that make me happy, lol). I'm ecstatic over the beautiful weather. It's in the low 70's with a slight cool breeze and couldn't feel better. I'm happy i am planning a nice nap in a few minutes with my lovely girl. I'm happy i have a nice trip coming up soon. Thinking about it makes each day seem brighter.

Another classy girl i like (well when she was younger)

How about f*in scumbag...i like the way that sounds. lol.

What i think (because you asked). A six week relationship is short. The girl didn't owe the guy any loyalty after they broke up. If the guys this girl slept with were really friends of her ex. they probably wouldn't have slept with her. However, i have known guys who have slept with their BEST friends girls/wives. I have also known guys who have turned down an invitation due to a friendship. Some people have better values than others. This guy should be mad at his friends IF he would have turned down a girl in the same situation. I don't think it's worth ending a friendship over either. My very best/closest friend growing up slept with a guy i dated (but never screwed) about 7 or 8 months after i stopped seeing him. Believe me, she was afraid to tell me. But she did tell me, and i didn't mind. At least i found out i didn't miss out on anything, lol. I don't think the slut, i mean girl, did anything wrong, like i said it was only six weeks. She must have been horny and apparantly wasn't gonna get any from the ex, hehe. I bet he learned his lesson...

Thank you ledbaby, you know i love Clint.

Very profound. How can anyone argue with this? Sounds a lot like me

Being straightforward is the best approach. If it doesn't go the way you hope, then at least you know. Just state your intentions. If you get mixed signals from the girl, ask hers!

Sixes and Sevens...Robert Plant (great song!)

turkey (of course)

It was a joke...i love spats and ledbaby...

Girls can have just as much sex as men. IF a girl is in a serious relationship, she is most likely having as much sex as her partner, lol. That certainly does not make her a slut. A slut is a woman who is promiscuious (yes i'm repeating myself). Being sex crazed or wild or whatever doesn't mean you are a slut. Doing it with lots of different men, hell yes...or lots of one night stands...slut.

Well since a slut is a woman (because of course a man can't be one, lol) who is promiscuous (has casual sex with multiple partners) then if a woman has one night stands ON A REGULAR BASIS, i would call her a slut. So don't you think women who engage in one night stands often already know this about themselves?

QUOTE (ledbaby @ Jun 13 2008, 04:06 PM) Don't let anyone fool you. It's perfectly fine to be single and date Spats. The christians started all this nonsense about having to be married and all the taboo shit. Hey Spats, sounds like you and ledbaby might be a good match I know ledbaby loves Zeppelin, too, so there's a bonus for you.

Just because i connect sex with love, doesn't mean i think sex is love. I have just "most of the time" had sex with people i "at the time" loved. Not 100% but pretty close... Good morning to you ledbaby, for me it's almost time for goodnight...we must have a big time difference, lol btw, stop trying to make me horny.

I had deep respect for Linda. She had a fascinating life. Photographing all those amazing rock stars. Marrying, loving and performing with a Beatle. I especially admire all the work she did for Animal Rights, something i would devote my time to if i was wealthy. Just a humble Jewish girl...lol. In memory of a wonderful human being:

I never said sex is love. To clarify my feelings, i have always desired to have sex with someone i love. It has much more meaning for ME. But to take it a step farther, if i don't love the person, it just doesn't feel right. I don't feel fulfilled when it's over. Not even if the sex is great. I'm not speaking for anyone else. Now i never said the other person has to love me. They just have to have passion.

thank you very much

lol, good joke. I think she left George prior to Clapton, but i'm not positive... anyway thanks for enjoying my taste in women...i like ones with "class" and Patricia has that.

Eric Clapton Standing at the crossroads, trying to read the signs To tell me which way I should go to find the answer, And all the time I know, Plant your love and let it grow. Let it grow, let it grow, Let it blossom, let it flow. In the sun, the rain, the snow, Love is lovely, let it grow. Looking for a reason to check out of my mind, Trying hard to get a friend that I can count on, But there's nothing left to show, Plant your love and let it grow. Time is getting shorter and there's much for you to do. Only ask and you will get what you are needing, The rest is up to you. Plant your love and let it grow.

Any normal person feels revolted by it. Personally, i hope history never forgets, but i can't stand to discuss such atrocity. Carry on.

I love both these people. I think she was so beautiful in her youth:

I'm still looking for that picture i saw of Joss puking her guts up all over the place, lol. I know it's around here somewhere. Stay tuned, guys, i'll get it for youse!

If i had to analyze why i was never interested in one night stands, it would be for reasons you just mentioned. I have always connected sex to love. I want to have sex with someone i have plans for a future with, and it would be lovely to find the person to have many many years with. My expectations are quite simple and revolve around how i'm cared for, not about a bunch of stuff that really doesn't matter.

Knowing the guy i'm interested in is such a people lover, just makes me feel so goood inside.