He was probably nice then, although I suppose he was impatient occasionally. But he demands respect, and when the girls get jealous as they will sooner or later, they play the who-respects-Robert-the-most game; and of course you will always come out looking like the one who doesn't. It's a form of card-stacking. It's too much aggravation; besides you don't matter to him anyway. And there you are caught up in their nonsense when you should be seeking a true love anyway.