I totally relate to your comments about living with a sloppy person. I have 2 - 1 husband, 1 daughter. I will give you a hint "forget about it" or it will eat you alive. I have now discovered I am happier just picking up the shit myself that Bitchin about it. It get's me less worked up. Nothing works. I love all your posts - I find mysels LOL when reading them. Where do you find t