I'm sure you will be a great Dad, my two daughters avoid me like the plague, my fault I used to have a drinking problem (thankfully I am over it now). I never mistreated them and I never let my drinking interfere with the daily running of the house. I.E. I never spent the housekepping money or anything like that, but my 18 year old hates me with a passion. Still I suppose it's to be expected, anyway she is very clever so I haven't affected her in that way, and I have never hit any female in my life. I was quite a happy drinker, go to work, come home drink in the house listen to music go to bed etc.etc.