Based on the fairly recent experiences of a close buddy of mine from Uni, I will never ever date an insecure woman, especially if she has the fucked up habit of snooping, by checking private emails, texts, etc. Jeez! If I catch someone I am dating snooping, I'll end it then and there! Look lady, if you want to read my emails and texts, then just ask! It is that simple! Be open about it, not secretive for cryin' out loud! It's bloody annoying! Jealousy and insecurity are ugly traits.