lzfan715 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Hi Richard, how are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redeyedrichard Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Fine thank you Alicia. How are you? I went out this afternoon and evening with my brother and two of our mates. We went for a meal and basically hung out a bit. I have a whacking headache now though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lzfan715 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I'm good, the day has been long though. I had to go to church and that always makes it drag out. Sounds like you had fun, even if you aren't feeling well. Can you take some headache medicine? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redeyedrichard Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I'm good, the day has been long though. I had to go to church and that always makes it drag out. Sounds like you had fun, even if you aren't feeling well. Can you take some headache medicine? Nope, because the reason I have headache is because I have drunk quite a bit of alcohol over the last four or five hours. We had a pint here at my house, then we went to the pub for a meal and I had a couple there, as well as a glass of Jack Daniel's, then we came back home and chilled out while I drank another pint. Couple that with all the hilarity and fun we had it gave me a bad headache....and headache medicine (i.e. paracetamol, aspirin) should not be taken when you have alcohol in your system. So I shall have to see this one out. So long as I don't move my head I will be ok. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Hello everyone I'm a bit happy, yet still aggravated. But, I hope it'll go away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lzfan715 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I didn't think about it being alcohol, in which case, don't take medicine. Just put some ice on your head. hi Rabia, what's wrong? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redeyedrichard Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I don't think an ice pack will help the situation much....they are used mainly for external injuries on the head...like bumps and stuff. This is an internal headache. I think I need a hug. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Oh no, it's alright it's just ugh these plans my parents have annoy the hell out of me Well, yesterday I already made so many plans and such for the night. Ok then, my parents notified me AN HOUR before we left that we're going to New Jersey. It just pissed me off that I'm dragged off into these plans without any notification. I'll be ok with it if they told me the night before, these plans they formulate for weeks without letting me know at all. And then today, only a few hours before we came, my parents let this businessman into my house for just financial business. I don't even know this man at all, and they always get my bedroom with out my consent. And I hate getting secluded to the cot in the living room I have no idea when he's going to leave. So my private sanctuary is handed off to some stranger. It's very uncomfortable. It just aggravates me. AWWW Richard I just read about your throes You get ten thousand and from me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lzfan715 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Sorry, I had to leave. I left my notebook at my mom's house and then my little brother got on and he got to stay on. He's so spoiled. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 It's alright, we're all facing problems Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lzfan715 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I'm so stressed out. My parents keep asking me what's wrong, and nothing's wrong so I can't tell them what's because nothing is then I get yelled out for lying to them. Edited: Rabia, that's terrible. I'd kill my parents for doing that to me. At my dad's he goes in quite often because that's where the turntable is so that doesn't bother me. I just hate how sometimes they snoop. Your room is exactly that- YOURS. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redeyedrichard Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Awww, thank you Rabia....but a little alcohol induced headache isn't a scratch on having your room rented out to some business guy without you being consented first. That is just foul play by my books. I am sorry you have been confined to the couch for some time. Have you expressed your views to your parents in a sincere way? You know about the last minute notifications and the renting out of your personal space. A billion for you!! haha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 No I had not expressed my views to my parents I never do I just get dragged along all the time, I mean I feel so void because I just suppress my objections, because I'm just too afraid that it would turn into another tirade, which it often does. maybe I should change Thanks Rich EDIT- thanks Alicia, but it's so common. My room is always the room rented out for such reasons, because I keep it so clean. Alicia, that is exactly the reason I was crying. My mom wanted to know what was wrong, I was just stressed, that was it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lzfan715 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I have to agree with Richard, very foul play. I'd be doing some major complaining, and I'd go into my roomo whenever I felt like it. Even if he's in there, it's your space and you have every right to be in there. I'd feel like they were invading my private space. Not to put ideas in your head, but you never know if he's going through your stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I still feel horrified for that reason, that my room is substituted as the guest room. I mean, kids come in and there's paper shredded everywhere. Teenagers come in and there's coke bottles everywhere and my underwear drawer is shuffled through, and then my 14 year old cousin comes in and looks for birth control pills I'm really surprised at how much I can repress I should change Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redeyedrichard Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 WTF!!!!! Rabia...I think it is time you started a rebellion....you have my cyber backing 100%. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lzfan715 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I'd really give someone a piece of my mind. You should put down set rules for renting out your room. If your parents don't like your rules, write them down on paper and then put the paper on your bed for the "guests" or a desk if you have one. I'd also check into having somewhere else for your personal stuff. Even just cd's and stuff. I wouldn't trust anyone but me and my dad with my vinyl and music collection. Can't the guests stay on the couch? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 YEAH, I should start a civil rebellion, a rebellion in a nice way Because I just don't have a mean spirit Alicia, if the rebellion doesn't work out, that is a great idea, you know. I want to lock all my stuff. My mom recruits me to the couch, because I'm not a guest. The guests always get the sanctuary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lzfan715 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I have your cyber back too. You have my msn address so feel free to vent your anger anytime there or in a pm if you don't want the whole world to know. Are you allowed in your room while people rent it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Not when they're sleeping or changing, or whatever. Only when they're outside the room. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lzfan715 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 I'd be going in that room whenever I wanted to if it's mine. If they're sleeping or changing that one thing, I don't need to see I don't need to see any half naked person. It's your room, I mean it's your choice how you handle it, but I'd start a major rebellion. I just got an idea, can you put posters on your walls and stuff? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 No I can't really put posters on my wall and such, they'd be torn down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redeyedrichard Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Yes...a rebellion it is. Explain that your drawers have been looked through, that things have been moved etc. Rabia...listen to me (speaking from experience)...if you just bottle all of this sh*t up inside yourself then one day you will explode, and you will do a FULL ON rebellion. It won't be a peaceable one, you will lash out at your parents and probably bolt out of the door. Its like a pressure cooker. If you didn't let the pressure out of the pan then the pan will explode. Rabia, you will explode if you let all of this stuff build up inside of you. You have got to let your parents know (calmly of course) how you feel about how you are treated....otherwise they will continue to do it innocently thinking that you don't have a problem with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lzfan715 Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Well, no posters, there goes Plan A. On to plan b, don't know what it is yet, but we will find a solution. Richard is right, you can't let it boil up inside you, it causes more problems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlackZeppelin Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Thank you everyone I don't want a pressure cooker. I wonder what Plan A was. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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