No, it's not unhealthy. Repeat that ad nauseum.
BTW, Rock Action said what I wanted to say much better than I would have conveyed it. If you're living with me, if you're in a committed relationship with me, you should want to come home and be with me. So if it's 1 or 2 in the morning and I ask you to come home, you shouldn't tell me to basically "fuck off" and then hang up.
Are you sure you're male?