Oh, I'm afraid this new job is exactly a move...it's an addition. In this economy it's too risky to cut ties with a sure thing, which is my job at the clinic. One job for love, one job for money. Best of both worlds!
I've been thinking about deactivating for awhile now, and it feels really good to have done it. Yes, it's addictive, and I don't need the drama.
Thanks for your well wishes, april_lynn.