I'd take it to them when you know they have time to talk to you, you're more likely to make more progress. Say to them, that you'er getting older and just want to know where things stand. Tell them your side, that you prefer to not have an arranged marriage. I'd just explain how you feel, and listen to how they feel. Since your 16 they have time to think about. But since this is America when you turn 18 you no longer have to do what your parents say.