spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Congratulations Spats, this is only what we've been telling you FOREVER. From now on, any advice we have, we'll just route through Bonnie, since you only seem to respond to her. Matt: Spats, you need to initiate more Spats: No, blah, blah, blah Electrophile: Spats, you need to initiate more Spats: No, blah, blah, blah Hermit: Spats, you need to initiate more Spats: No, blah, blah, blah Bonnie: Spats, you need to initiate more Spats: You really think so? Wow, you're right! Yea but Bonnie said it's nice to intiate once in a while. And it clicked into my head that i don't intiate with even smaller things then asking someone on a date. And She wasn't saying it's the man's job to close the deal. Or "grow some balls". She wasn't telling me to be a miracle worker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 I just went to lunch with my dad and he asked me if I needed more water and when the waiter came by, I gave him my glass so it could be re-filled. If my dad hadn't brought it to my attention, I probably wouldn't have noticed. You still need a punch and a drink to the face. That's nice. But whenever i am out the waiter does it. if he is a good waiter. That's his job. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattmc1973 Posted March 14, 2008 Author Share Posted March 14, 2008 She wasn't telling me to be a miracle worker. So asking for a number when a girl is clearly interested in you would require you to be a miracle worker? Yes, I agree you having any sense would be a miracle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 No, you do need to grow some balls. Right now they're the size of frozen Raisinettes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattmc1973 Posted March 14, 2008 Author Share Posted March 14, 2008 No, you do need to grow some balls. Right now they're the size of frozen Raisinettes. So is his brain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 double post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 So asking for a number when a girl is clearly interested in you would require you to be a miracle worker? Yes, I agree you having any sense would be a miracle. Dude, i told you that situation. I don't like hinting, i want a straight forward woman. The fact that she was hinting at it means she has the belief that it's not her job to do that. That it's the guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 THAT IS NOT WHAT IT MEANS. FOR FUCK'S SAKE. IT MEANT SHE WANTED YOU TO ASK FOR HER NUMBER. THAT DOESN'T SPEAK TO WHAT SHE THINKS IS A MAN'S JOB OR A WOMAN'S JOB OR EVERYONE'S JOB OR ANYTHING ELSE LIKE THAT. Do you possess the ability to crawl inside people's minds and be able to determine their thoughts/feelings/opinions on every subject under the sun? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 No, you do need to grow some balls. Right now they're the size of frozen Raisinettes. Well if you had the experiences i have had in my life you might be able to see where i am coming from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 EVERYONE HAS BEEN REJECTED AT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER. THEY DON'T TURN IT INTO AN EXCUSE TO BE A SACKLESS WONDER. I WILL KEEP TYPING IN ALL CAPS UNTIL THIS GETS THROUGH YOUR SKULL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattmc1973 Posted March 14, 2008 Author Share Posted March 14, 2008 Dude, i told you that situation. I don't like hinting, i want a straight forward woman. The fact that she was hinting at it means she has the belief that it's not her job to do that. That it's the guys. Yeah, I know you told me the situation, and I think your reasoning is retarded. You complain about being in a slump, but it's sticking to a line of thinking like this that keeps you in your slump. YOUR FAULT. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Yeah, I know you told me the situation, and I think your reasoning is retarded. You complain about being in a slump, but it's sticking to a line of thinking like this that keeps you in your slump. YOUR FAULT. I can be stubborn sometimes. If i believe in something with a passion i will stick with it. And i hate that thinking that some women have that it's a guys job. I can't stand it. So giving in to that thinking just makes me sick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 MAYBE SHE DOESN'T THINK IT'S A GUY'S JOB, BUT SHE WANTS YOU TO ASK FOR HER NUMBER. MAYBE SHE'S ASKED OTHER GUYS BEFORE, BUT WANTED YOU TO DO THE ASKING. DID ANY OF THESE THOUGHTS CROSS YOUR ADDLED MIND? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 EVERYONE HAS BEEN REJECTED AT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER. THEY DON'T TURN IT INTO AN EXCUSE TO BE A SACKLESS WONDER. I WILL KEEP TYPING IN ALL CAPS UNTIL THIS GETS THROUGH YOUR SKULL. But a lot of people don't have my track record. I got rejected in front of group of girls at school. That's as embarassing as it gets. What is your rejection count. Have you asked guys out and did they reject you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattmc1973 Posted March 14, 2008 Author Share Posted March 14, 2008 But a lot of people don't have my track record. I got rejected in front of group of girls at school. That's as embarassing as it gets. When, last week? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 What lame-o keeps track of the number of times they got shot down? I don't have the foggiest idea, I just know it's happened. And I got over it because life is too short to dwell on the things that didn't happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Givem hell spats. You are luckier than you know. No woman to tie you down. Once you get her you will think back and say, "man, what happened to my freedom?" Last night i am out eating with friends and one of my buddies girlfriends starts calling him because she wanted him home by Midnight!! And we have to listen to the mini argument on the phone. And sure enough the dude gives in and went home. Putting a bit of a damper on our night. At moments like that i am glad i don't have a girlfriend but if it were me i would not be putting up with that nonsense so i still want a girlfriend right now. I haven't had one since 2006. One of my other buddies is smarter about it and he has a pretty cool girlfriend and they have an agreement they will never argue in front of friends. Because it just looks bad. My buddy from last night should have done that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Some guys know there are fights worth fighting and fights worth leaving alone. This was obviously one of them. That doesn't say anything bad about either party. He went home. Big deal. Get over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 What lame-o keeps track of the number of times they got shot down? I don't have the foggiest idea, I just know it's happened. And I got over it because life is too short to dwell on the things that didn't happen. But you actually asked guys out on dates? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 But you actually asked guys out on dates? .....yes, I have. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn't. I got over it. Like I said, life is too short to live like you do. I'd go crazy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Some guys know there are fights worth fighting and fights worth leaving alone. This was obviously one of them. That doesn't say anything bad about either party. He went home. Big deal. Get over it. It says to me that she should loosen up. She is not his mother. She is his girlfriend. If he wants to stay out past midnight he should be able to. He is too old to have a curfew. And he should not have wimped out to the pressure. We weren't out drinking or anything. We were just out eating burgers and fries . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Why do you give a damn? It's none of your business how he conducts his relationship, as long as it's not abusive. You shouldn't be imposing your batshit insane expectations on other people and expect them to adhere to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 When, last week? No this was when i was a teenager. It was horrible. I had to leave the dance it was that embarassing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Why do you give a damn? It's none of your business how he conducts his relationship, as long as it's not abusive. You shouldn't be imposing your batshit insane expectations on other people and expect them to adhere to them. Because he is my friend and it shows it is not a healthy relationship. He used to have a lot more fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suz Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 No this was when i was a teenager. It was horrible. I had to leave the dance it was that embarassing. Sounds like an 80's teen movie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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