spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 What lame-o keeps track of the number of times they got shot down? I don't have the foggiest idea, I just know it's happened. And I got over it because life is too short to dwell on the things that didn't happen. I haven't kept track of every single one but i can remember most of them in great detail as if they were yesterday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Because he is my friend and it shows it is not a healthy relationship. He used to have a lot more fun. If you think that's the sign of an unhealthy relationship, you don't know what an unhealthy relationship actually is. I've had friends go through abusive relationships, ones where drugs and alcohol played a large part.....this is not anywhere near that. Not even in the same area code. Now if she's physically threatening him, beating him, being abusive....I can see you saying it's unhealthy. It's not unhealthy for a guy to go home because his girlfriend asked him to. Are you this out of touch? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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fenderguy Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Batshit expectations?-------------I love it. Can someone pass the popcorn? Well, I better get going now or my wife will get mad at me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 If you think that's the sign of an unhealthy relationship, you don't know what an unhealthy relationship actually is. I've had friends go through abusive relationships, ones where drugs and alcohol played a large part.....this is not anywhere near that. Not even in the same area code. Now if she's physically threatening him, beating him, being abusive....I can see you saying it's unhealthy. It's not unhealthy for a guy to go home because his girlfriend asked him to. Are you this out of touch? Compared to that it's nothing but it's still not healthy. He is a grown man and she's not his mother. A grown man should not have to be home by a certain time. There is no baby at home to be taken care or anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 That's an insult to the toothless fellow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Sounds like an 80's teen movie. I wish it had been that day. At least that way there would have been a happy ending. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock Action Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Compared to that it's nothing but it's still not healthy. He is a grown man and she's not his mother. A grown man should not have to be home by a certain time. There is no baby at home to be taken care or anything. If you don't give a fuck about your wife/girlfriend enough to WANT to be home with her you shouldn't be there in the first place. She's investing her life into being with you, she deserves as much in return. Unbelievable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Compared to that it's nothing but it's still not healthy. He is a grown man and she's not his mother. A grown man should not have to be home by a certain time. There is no baby at home to be taken care or anything. No, it's not unhealthy. Repeat that ad nauseum. BTW, Rock Action said what I wanted to say much better than I would have conveyed it. If you're living with me, if you're in a committed relationship with me, you should want to come home and be with me. So if it's 1 or 2 in the morning and I ask you to come home, you shouldn't tell me to basically "fuck off" and then hang up. Are you sure you're male? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattmc1973 Posted March 14, 2008 Author Share Posted March 14, 2008 No this was when i was a teenager. Like I said, last week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 If you don't give a fuck about your wife/girlfriend enough to WANT to be home with her you shouldn't be there in the first place. She's investing her life into being with you, she deserves as much in return. Dick. The dude was out having fun with his buddies which he does not get to do as much anymore for obvious reasons. She should leave him alone and let him have some fun. It's not as if he is out every single night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 No, it's not unhealthy. Repeat that ad nauseum. BTW, Rock Action said what I wanted to say much better than I would have conveyed it. If you're living with me, if you're in a committed relationship with me, you should want to come home and be with me. So if it's 1 or 2 in the morning and I ask you to come home, you shouldn't tell me to basically "fuck off" and then hang up. Are you sure you're male? I am a male. And a male in my eyes would not turn around and say "yes dear" and slink off home. She needs to let him have some fun with his buddies every now and then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock Action Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 The dude was out having fun with his buddies which he does not get to do as much anymore for obvious reasons. She should leave him alone and let him have some fun. It's not as if he is out every single night. Well I still say that a relationship means being with each other. Sure, I go out and play with my band now and then, but I either invite the wife along, or at least come home at a reasonable time and not blasted outta my mind. Much. Not because she nags me. Because I WANT to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattmc1973 Posted March 14, 2008 Author Share Posted March 14, 2008 Wait a minute, before we get too far down this road, what does your buddy's girlfriend and his relationship have to do with anything? OK, maybe he has a controlling or insecure girlfriend, I've been there myself, but so what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 I am a male. And a male in my eyes would turn around and say "yes dear" and slink off home. She nneds to let him have some fun with his buddies every now and then. So it's not manly to come home to your girlfriend when she asks? Praytell, what other things aren't "manly"? I'm dying to hear this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock Action Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Wait a minute, before we get too far down this road, what does your buddy's girlfriend and his relationship have to do with anything? OK, maybe he has a controlling or insecure girlfriend, I've been there myself, but so what? It's called a diversion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charles_Obscure Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Good God! This thread is a load of fun-and-bullshit!! Everyone has some great, intelligent advices but this Spats is too dumb to understand the fucking logic! Someone should start a sort of Top 40 of all his "Best" Worst comments-or-line!! I wish you could post a picture of yourself, Spats!!! p.s.: I think you're a desperate case. If you want my advice, think about becoming a monk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattmc1973 Posted March 14, 2008 Author Share Posted March 14, 2008 Someone should start a sort of Top 40 of all his "Best" Worst comments-or-line!! See Page 2 of this thread... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charles_Obscure Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 See Page 2 of this thread... Thank you, Matt! I've put it in my bookmarks! all I can say is "Unbelievable"... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattmc1973 Posted March 14, 2008 Author Share Posted March 14, 2008 He's a wonder to behold, isn't he? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 So it's not manly to come home to your girlfriend when she asks? Praytell, what other things aren't "manly"? I'm dying to hear this. It should not even get to the point of her asking him to come home. Let him be. He is a grown man. The dude is out with the boys. She knows where he is. He is not out drinking and driving or anything like that. Just hanging out with friends. He has his own keys to get in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chien Noir Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 S. O. S. indeed. Boring. Do not feed the spats. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 It should not even get to the point of her asking him to come home. Let him be. He is a grown man. The dude is out with the boys. She knows where he is. He is not out drinking and driving or anything like that. Just hanging out with friends. He has his own keys to get in. Answer the question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Wait a minute, before we get too far down this road, what does your buddy's girlfriend and his relationship have to do with anything? OK, maybe he has a controlling or insecure girlfriend, I've been there myself, but so what? Someone here said to me to maybe appreciate being single because i have my freedom to do what i want. And i was telling him that some of my buddies relationships sometimes make me glad i am single. And i gave him an example and then some people responded to that. That's all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 Answer the question. What's the question again? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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