Almost everyone gets laid sometimes too, but...oh oops,nevermind.
I think Americans are to hung up on "getting drunk" and not just enjoying drink.
Trust me, I was one of those who drank JUST to get drunk, as a teen and sometimes as "revenge" against whatever I was hurt/pissed about. Totally wrong. It never solves a thing. Used it as a sleep aid at one point too. Again...wrong.
As Redrum said, I too lost my only brother to alcohol. As well as almost an entire band who were my buddies.
Moderation, moderation, moderation and eat something before, and during.
I had an entire "formula" worked out so I could go get drunk...vitamins, aspirin, small meal before. Coffee after, then lot's of water, some kind of juice or soup, crackers.
Sheesh! I'm so glad I've stopped that silliness.