brspled Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 The two couples I'm talking about did move in together--one moved across the country, and the other immigrated to the US to be with the people they've met. Oh, yes, I forgot the other couple. Sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chien Noir Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Yeah, love makes people do things they wouldn't ever do in a "normal" state of mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 The two couples I'm talking about did move in together--one moved across the country, and the other immigrated to the US to be with the people they've met. I don't think i would be able to do that. I might consider it if they lived in NY or LA. I would love to live in both those cities and if the relationship didn't work out i could still live there and look elsewhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chien Noir Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 I don't think i would be able to do that. I might consider it if they lived in NY or LA. I would love to live in both those cities and if the relationship didn't work out i could still live there and look elsewhere. Still it's at least on the same continent Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firekisses Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 I try and be positive. I guess experience has formed my views and the way i do things. I guess i am what they call "jaded". Past experiences can take a toll on you and participating in the dating scene can give you a real negative attitude on this stuff. I understand that past experiences have an affect on you, but you have to attempt to learn from them and then leave them in the past where they belong. I've dated some guys that turned out to be real jerks, but I don't judge all relationships based upon those negative experiences. I'm a little bit wiser, a little more in tune with myself and I still follow my heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firekisses Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Still it's at least on the same continent Oh there's nothing wrong with finding love with someone on another continent..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katuschka Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 I know of two couples that have met and become very serious...on the old board. Oh, the power of globalization... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chien Noir Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 (edited) Oh, the power of globalization... Last time I checked, this wasn't the sarcasm thread Oh there's nothing wrong with finding love with someone on another continent..... Not wrong, difficult ..and expensive Edited January 22, 2008 by Chien Noir Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katuschka Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Last time I checked, this wasn't the sarcasm thread That's because it wasn't sarcasm. This is my way of saying that I'm sincerely glad such things happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chien Noir Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 That's because it wasn't sarcasm. This is my way of saying that I'm sincerely glad such things happen. Guess you gotta blame your reputation as masterful user of sarcasms then Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neutral Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 divorced with four children... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 My parents' wedding anniversary is today. 36 years.....some of their friends are on spouse number #3 right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dzldoc Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 I try and be positive. I guess experience has formed my views and the way i do things. I guess i am what they call "jaded". Past experiences can take a toll on you and participating in the dating scene can give you a real negative attitude on this stuff. Note my signature says it all. Best friend and Best man at my wedding spoke just as you do. 18 months later I was one of his pawl bearers. He just couldn't settle down an went into depression. Died in the same way as JB fifth of vodka and never awoke! He was 30yo Learn to love your self first and good things will follow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Note my signature says it all. Best friend and Best man at my wedding spoke just as you do. 18 months later I was one of his pawl bearers. He just couldn't settle down an went into depression. Died in the same way as JB fifth of vodka and never awoke! He was 30yo Learn to love your self first and good things will follow What is involved in loving yourself.? Loving every little thing about yourself? Do people really love themselves. I get the impression most tolerate themselves. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electrophile Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Loving yourself means learning to accept your imperfections as the qualities that make you unique. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spats Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Loving yourself means learning to accept your imperfections as the qualities that make you unique. Then i have trouble doing that. I hate my imperfections with a passion. I can't acccept them at all. If i got positive results from them maybe i could but i don't. I think they have held me back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaughterOfZeppelin Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Then i have trouble doing that. I hate my imperfections with a passion. I can't acccept them at all. If i got positive results from them maybe i could but i don't. I think they have held me back. If you count your personality as one of your imperfections then you may be onto something.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katuschka Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Then i have trouble doing that. I hate my imperfections with a passion. I can't acccept them at all. If i got positive results from them maybe i could but i don't. I think they have held me back. Yeah, we've noticed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MS1 Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Not wrong, difficult ..and expensive True. But there's no wrong way to met the right person for you, is there? It's just money. You can make more of that, but you might never find a better person. Speaking of which . . . The two couples I'm talking about did move in together--one moved across the country, and the other immigrated to the US to be with the people they've met. Who is that? Oh wait. As I was typing it came to me, still within North America, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firekisses Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 True. But there's no wrong way to met the right person for you, is there? It's just money. You can make more of that, but you might never find a better person. Speaking of which . . . I couldn't agree with you more! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Idunn Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 I don't know that I "love" myself, but I do try to live in such a way that I am able to hold myself in high regard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firekisses Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Well I believe you have to love yourself and learn to appreciate and accept both your positive and negative qualities in order that you may share yourself with another person. How can you allow someone else's love into your heart if you don't feel that you deserve it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
59LesPaul Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 What is involved in loving yourself.? Of all people;I thought you'd be an expert at "loving yourself"...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maureen Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 As for me, i have a very strange errr "status" now.....i love one person VERY much....and there were many problems before we were manage to be together...but now we decided to take a pause....i miss him...we together but it's kinnda pause...i don't know if it's for the better..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock Action Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 As for me, i have a very strange errr "status" now.....i love one person VERY much....and there were many problems before we were manage to be together...but now we decided to take a pause....i miss him...we together but it's kinnda pause...i don't know if it's for the better..... I wish you the best of luck. That can be torture. But at the same time, so can forcing a relationship. Take it from someone who found out the hard way... Best wishes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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